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Dating

Dating as a mom is one of the toughest challenges I've ever had to face. It's not at all like dating without kids. There are so many favors that play into it, most of which have more to do with your child than with your relationship itself. The hardest part for me personally is finding a good pace for the relationship. No matter who you date, you always have to look at them as a potential parent for your child because if they aren't safe or don't even like kids, what are you doing in that relationship?? Then there is deciding when they can't meet your baby and learning to try to trust someone with something more valuable than your own life. When I say "look at them as a potential parent, I don't mean have them take on rolls or picture yourself growing old and having a family with that person, which is really easy to do. As a young mom, my hormones are constantly up and down and it is really easy for me to get attached to someone. What helps me not to thro...

New Blog

My name is Cierra Trayner, and I am mostly starting this blog for myself. I am 20 years old and have a little girl, Ayla James who is turning one on Monday, April 10. And while she is the light of my life, being a single mom is really hard. This post will be mainly talking about who I am and just a little about my situation. I was in my freshman year of college at Arizona State as a Chemical Engineering major when I found out I was pregnant. I didn't even know until i was 9 weeks (2 months), I thought I simply had a bad case of  the stomach flu. One of my closest friends, Sarah picked me up and was with me when I took the test. When it came up positive she told me about this group she was part of called Younglives ( a subdivision of Younglife for young mommas). She brought me to my first meeting and introduces me to other young moms and helped me a lot through a really hard time. I am not lying when I say that Younglives saved my daughters life. I am the mom I am today because of...