I apologize for not posting in a while. The last few weeks have been a lot. I finally contacted Aylas grandparents on her fathers side and they are AMAZING! We are so lucky that they are such kind and generous people. They instantly welcomed Ayla and I into their family and made it clear that I was as welcome as Ayla was. We talked at length and spent time getting to know each other before deciding how we wanted to proceed.
It turns out, Aylas father, Seth, never told his parents around Ayla so they were completely shocked when I contacted them. They were angry and hurt but also so excited to meet their granddaughter.
Everything has been so crazy since then and my stress level has been unreal... there have been a lot of tears and breaking out and breaking down from everyone involved.
Seth and his fiancé just had a bevy, Adella who is only a few weeks old. His parents knew things weren't going to be pretty when he told her the truth but we have all been praying for the best. About a week ago, his parents sat him down and confronted him, explaining that they knew about Ayla and that he needed to take a paternity test, because up until that moment, he refused anything I wanted. He finally took the test and it came back positive (which we knew it would). He was so blind sided by everything that we decided to give him a few days to process everything before having him tell his fiancé. That conversation happened last night and I still don't know how it went. His parents are fairly sure she is going to leave him, which I wouldn't blame her for.
So I guess my question is, would you? In her situation, would you leave your fiancé? She found out he had been lying to her since they met. He was hiding a child that he abandoned. She is also a mother of 3 and family is important to her. On top of everything, he has a lying problem and she has already had to kick him out a few times for lying to her. So what would you do if you found out he was hiding a baby he knew about since before you met him? Feel free to comment on here or on any of the social media I post on.
It turns out, Aylas father, Seth, never told his parents around Ayla so they were completely shocked when I contacted them. They were angry and hurt but also so excited to meet their granddaughter.
Everything has been so crazy since then and my stress level has been unreal... there have been a lot of tears and breaking out and breaking down from everyone involved.
Seth and his fiancé just had a bevy, Adella who is only a few weeks old. His parents knew things weren't going to be pretty when he told her the truth but we have all been praying for the best. About a week ago, his parents sat him down and confronted him, explaining that they knew about Ayla and that he needed to take a paternity test, because up until that moment, he refused anything I wanted. He finally took the test and it came back positive (which we knew it would). He was so blind sided by everything that we decided to give him a few days to process everything before having him tell his fiancé. That conversation happened last night and I still don't know how it went. His parents are fairly sure she is going to leave him, which I wouldn't blame her for.
So I guess my question is, would you? In her situation, would you leave your fiancé? She found out he had been lying to her since they met. He was hiding a child that he abandoned. She is also a mother of 3 and family is important to her. On top of everything, he has a lying problem and she has already had to kick him out a few times for lying to her. So what would you do if you found out he was hiding a baby he knew about since before you met him? Feel free to comment on here or on any of the social media I post on.
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